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GLOSSARY
couple –
a romantic pair; two people involved in a romantic relationship
* Ingot and Stanislav make such a beautiful couple. I hope that they stay
together!
indecent –
inappropriate and offensive; immoral
* Many people thought that the actress’s dress was indecent because it was too
tight and showed too much of her body.
to hug –
to embrace; to put one’s arms around another person while facing him
or her, so that one’s bodies are touching
* Chelsea hugged her grandma for a long time when it was time to say goodbye.
to kiss –
to put one’s lips on another person’s skin (usually lips, cheeks, or
hands) to show affection or love, say hello or goodbye, or be romantic
* Do people kiss each other on the cheek to say hello in your country?
to sit on (someone’s) lap –
to sit on another person’s upper legs while that
person is sitting down
* The cat likes to sit on Burt’s lap when he’s reading.
to make out –
to kiss and touch someone sexually for a long time
* A lot of high school students drive to the top of that hill to make out in their cars.
public –
for everyone; with many people; open to anybody
* In the U.S., most people attend a public high school, rather than a private one.
to get a room –
to stay at a hotel room, usually because one wants to do
something sexual that shouldn’t be seen by other people
* I don’t like watching people kiss and touch each other. They should get a room
so that I don’t have to see it!
passionate –
with strong feelings, especially of sexual love
* Romeo gave Nancy an extremely passionate kiss.
teenager –
adolescent; a young person who is 13-19 years old
* Teenagers often fight with their parents because they’re trying to have more
independence.
modestly –
conservatively; not attracting attention
* Desdemona told her daughter to dress more modestly.
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to hold hands –
to put one’s hand in another person’s hand as a sign of love
or affection
* It made us smile to see our grandparents holding hands as they walked through
the park.
a peck on the cheek –
a quick kiss on one’s cheek (the skin on the side of one’s
face)
* Becky’s first kiss was just a quick peck on the cheek, but she was only 12 years
old, so she thought it was very romantic.
private –
for only certain people; without other people being around
* Noemi asked to speak with her doctor in private because she didn’t want other
people to hear about her medical problems.
to get cozy –
to be physically close to another person
* Shane and his girlfriend get cozy while watching movies, sitting as close as
possible to each other, with his arm around her shoulders.
to object to (something) –
to oppose something; to believe and say that
something is wrong or inappropriate
* Leo objects to the way that some parents give their children everything they ask
for.
public displays of affection –
PDA – people kissing, hugging, and touching
each other in sexual or romantic ways where other people can see it
* I know you two have only been married for a month, but could you stop the
PDA, at least while I’m here?
to turn (one’s) stomach –
to make one feel sick; to make one feel like vomiting
* The smell of sardines turns by stomach.
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COMPREHENSION QUESTIONS
1. What does Nelly think is indecent?
a) The way that the couple is making out.
b) The way that the couple is talking.
c) The way that the couple is behaving in a private place.
2. What does Nelly mean when she says, “It turns my stomach”?
a) She is hungry.
b) Her stomach hurts.
c) She feels sick.
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WHAT ELSE DOES IT MEAN?
to make out
The phrase “to make out,” in this podcast, means to kiss and touch someone
sexually for a long time: “Did your parents ever catch you making out with your
boyfriend when you were a teenager?” The phrase “to make out” is also used to
ask someone informally how he or she did with something, or whether he or she
was successful in doing something: “How did you make out on your first day at
work?” The phrase “to make (something) out” means to distinguish something,
or to be able to read or hear something that is difficult to read or hear: “Can you
make out what that sign says? The letters are too small for me to read them.”
Or, “The professor is speaking too quietly and it’s hard to make out what she’s
saying.”
to object
In this podcast, the verb “to object” means to oppose something, or to believe
and say that something is wrong or inappropriate: “Antonio objects to the way
scientists use animals in their research.” As a noun, an “object” is a physical
thing that is not alive and can be seen and touched: “The art gallery is filled with
interesting glass objects.” An “object” is also an aim, goal, or purpose: “For
Albert, the only object of studying is to get a good job.” If someone says, “money
is no object,” it means that he or she is willing to spend a lot of money to get what
he or she wants, and the cost isn’t important: “Money is no object for Elisa. She
always buys the best things available.”
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CULTURE NOTE
In the United States, people have different ideas about what kinds of public
displays of affection (PDAs) are acceptable. It “varies” (is different) depending
on the age of people, and what part of the country they live in.
Almost everyone believes that holding hands in public is okay. Most people
believe that kissing and hugging is acceptable, too. But very long kisses and
hugs, or lots of touching, is often “considered” (thought or believed) to be
indecent and inappropriate. “Snuggling” (holding another person close for a long
time) sometimes even sleeping, is usually not appropriate in public. However,
during the spring and summer, couples are seen snuggling on blankets in the
grass at public parks. As long as there isn’t too much kissing and touching, most
people don’t “mind” (object) to it. Sometimes, however, another person in the
park might feel “offended” (insulted) and shout, “Why don’t you two get a room?”
to try to “embarrass” the couple, or make them feel ashamed, so that they stop
snuggling.
At nightclubs, PDAs are more acceptable, even though these are still public
places. Many young people enjoy dancing close to each other and rub their
bodies against each other in sexual ways while they are moving to the music. At
nightclubs, these couples are surrounded by other young people doing the same
thing, so no one objects. But when older people see it, they often think that it is
indecent.
In general, each “generation” (group of people with similar ages) seems to accept
more PDAs than the “prior” (earlier) generation did. Over time, U.S. culture is
becoming more tolerant about what other people do in public.
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Comprehension Questions Correct Answers: 1 – a; 2 – c
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COMPLETE TRANSCRIPT
Welcome to English as a Second Language Podcast number 293: Being
Affectionate in Public.
This is English as a Second Language Podcast episode 293. I'm your host, Dr.
Jeff McQuillan, coming to you from the Center for Educational Development in
beautiful Los Angeles, California.
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This episode is called “Being Affectionate in Public.” “Affectionate” means
showing someone that you love them. Let's get started.
[start of story]
Nelly: Look at that couple over there. What they’re doing is indecent!
Sadat: Where? Oh, you mean those two people hugging and kissing? That’s
not indecent.
Nelly: They’re not just hugging and kissing. That girl is sitting on her boyfriend’s
lap and they’re making out in the middle of a public place. They need to get a
room.
Sadat: They’re just passionate, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Don’t you
remember when you were a teenager in love?
Nelly: When I was a teenager, we behaved a lot more modestly. We might hold
hands or give each other a peck on the cheek in public. That’s it. Anything else
we did, we did in private.
Sadat: Oh, you’re not saying that you didn’t get cozy with your boyfriend as a
teenager, you’re just saying you did it in private.
Nelly: Right. What I object to is having to watch other people’s public displays of
affection. It turns my stomach.
Sadat: Don’t look now, but there’s another PDA over there.
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