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ESL Podcast 859 – Attending an Ex’s Wedding
GLOSSARY
wedding
– the ceremony that brings two people together in marriage
* Derek wants a small wedding, but his fiancée wants to invite hundreds of
people.
ex
– a former romantic partner; a person with whom one used to have a romantic
relationship
* Frank never dates colleagues, because he doesn’t want to be in the position of
working with an ex.
to have the nerve
– to be very bold and arrogant; to do something that is
shocking and rude, without being sorry about it
* I can’t believe Sheila had the nerve to ask me to pay for the meal after she was
the one who suggested we go to such an expensive restaurant.
to invite
– to ask someone to come to an event or to participate in something
* How many people are you inviting to the party?
water under the bridge
– something that happened in the past and has been
forgotten and no longer has any importance or influence
* When Bryan and Kai were younger, they fought a lot, but now those arguments
are water under the bridge and they are best friends.
no hard feelings
– without any anger or resentment; not holding a grudge; not
spending a lot of time thinking about how another person hurt oneself or did
something bad in the past
* I’m sorry I dated your sister without asking for your permission first. No hard
feelings, okay?
breakup
– the end of a romantic relationship; the moment when two people
decide to stop dating each other
* A lot of people have horrible stories about breakups that happened via text
messaging or email.
mutual
– done by two people, usually at the same time; in the interest of two
people; experienced by two people
* They shook hands as a sign of their mutual agreement and said they would put
everything in a written contract on Monday.
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to have a soft place in (one’s) heart for (someone)
– to have sweet, kind, and
possibly romantic feelings for another person; to like someone
* Peter has always had a soft spot in his heart for Mikayla. I wonder why he has
never asked her out on a date.
to harbor
– to continue to have hopes or fears, but keep them secret and hidden
from other people
* How can he still be harboring anger over what happened four years ago?
to never come to pass
– to not happen; to not occur
* Some economists are predicting an unemployment rate of 20%, but I hope that
never comes to pass.
to move on
– to continue with one’s life, no longer worrying about some past
event or letting it affect one’s decisions and actions
* Janelle’s husband died 10 years ago, and she has finally decided that it’s time
to move on and start dating again.
to wish (someone) well
– to hope that one has a good life and finds peace and
happiness; to have only good feelings toward another person
* We’re sad to see Kaitlynn leave the company, but we wish her well in her next
job.
match
– one half of a pair, sharing many characteristics or interests with the
other person or thing; part of a set
* Do you think this skirt would be a good match for this sweater?
to hold out on (someone)
– to not fully share all the available information with
another person; to keep a secret, at least partially, and not tell everything to
another person
* Did something happen at work today? It seems like you’re holding out on me.
do tell
– a phrase used to ask someone to share information or to invite
someone to speak, especially about very exciting or interesting news
* How was your date with Sarah? Do tell!
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COMPREHENSION QUESTIONS
1. What does Andy mean when he asks, “He had the nerve to invite you to his
wedding?”
a) He thinks Jamal would be very nervous to invite Yuka.
b) He thinks Jamal’s invitation was inappropriate.
c) He thinks Jamal’s should have invited him, too.
2. What does Yuka say about Jamal’s new wife?
a) She seems to have a lot in common with Jamal.
b) She is very beautiful.
c) She is very kind and thoughtful.
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WHAT ELSE DOES IT MEAN?
to have the nerve
The phrase “to have the nerve,” in this podcast, means to be very bold and
arrogant, or to do something that is shocking and rude, without being apologetic:
“How could Lola have the nerve to tell me I don’t dress well enough, when she
was wearing shorts in the office?” The phrase “to be a bundle of nerves” means
to be very nervous and anxious about something: “Damian is always a bundle of
nerves before his presentations.” The phrase “to steady (one’s) nerves” means to
calm down and stop being so nervous: “Maybe taking a five minute break would
help her steady her nerves.” Finally, the phrase “to lose (one’s) nerve” means to
become very nervous or worried and lose confidence so that one is no longer
able to do what one had planned to do: “Mike was going to ask Mariah to marry
him, but then he lost his nerve.”
to harbor
In this podcast, the verb “to harbor” means to continue to have hopes or fears,
but keep them secret and hidden from other people: “Are you still harboring
hopes that someone will find your dog?” The verb “to harbor” can also mean to
protect a criminal or someone else, giving him or her a safe place to stay: “This
home harbored many slaves as they left the southern United States in search of
freedom.” Sometimes “to harbor” means to have or contain something, especially
if it cannot be seen and is dangerous: “Kitchen sponges often harbor germs, so
it’s a good idea to replace them frequently.” Finally, as a noun, a “harbor” is an
area of calm water in an ocean or sea, where ships are safe and able to avoid
large waves: “As soon as they left the harbor, Jacques became seasick.”
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CULTURE NOTE
Traditional Weddings
Wedding “receptions” (parties after the wedding ceremony) can be “elaborate”
(with many parts or details) events, especially when they include all of the
traditional “components” (parts).
Normally, there is a lot of music and dancing. Traditionally, the “bride” (the
woman who has just been married) has the “first dance” (dancing to the first song
played) with her father, and then with her “groom” (the man who has just been
married).
The “newlyweds” (the two people who have just been married) usually hold a
special knife together to cut the first “slice” (piece) of the cake. They feed the first
bite to each other with their fingers, but many couples actually “smear” (put
something down and move it to make a mark) over the bride’s or groom’s face as
they feed it to each other, having fun by making a mess on each other’s faces.
They also might drink their “champagne” (special white wine with bubbles) so
that their arms wrap around each other as they each drink from a “champagne
flute” (a long, narrow glass used for drinking champagne).
Later in the reception, the bride sometimes puts her right foot up on a chair and
“raises” (moves higher) the “hem” (bottom sewn part) of her dress to “expose”
(allow to be seen) much of her leg. The groom then removes a “garter” (a small
piece of elastic worn around the “thigh” (upper part of the leg), traditionally used
to hold up stockings). The groom throws the garter toward the “single” (not
married) men and the bride throws her “bouquet” (a collection of flowers held in
one’s hands) toward the single women. The man who catches the garter and the
woman who catches the bouquet “are said to be” (are talked about as if they are)
the next ones to marry.
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Comprehension Questions Correct Answers: 1 – b; 2 – a
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COMPLETE TRANSCRIPT
Welcome to English as a Second Language Podcast number 859: Attending an
Ex’s Wedding.
This is English as a Second Language Podcast epsiode 859. I’m your host, Dr.
Jeff McQuillan, coming to your from the Center for Educational Development in
beautiful Los Angeles, California.
Our website is ESLPod.com. You know that, but did you also know that you can
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for this episode.
This episode is a dialog between Andy and Yuka about going to the wedding –
the marriage ceremony – of someone who used to be your boyfriend or girlfriend.
Sounds pretty interesting. Let’s get started.
[start of dialog]
Andy: What did you do last weekend?
Yuka: I went to Jamal’s wedding.
Andy: Jamal?! Your ex Jamal?
Yuka: Yes, that Jamal.
Andy: He had the nerve to invite you to his wedding?
Yuka: I actually thought it was nice of him to invite me. Whatever happened
between us years ago is water under the bridge. There are no hard feelings on
either side.
Andy: You told me that the breakup was mutual, but I always thought you still
had a soft place in your heart for him.
Yuka: The truth is, when we first broke up, I did harbor some hopes of the two of
us getting back together, but that never came to pass. We both moved on and I
wish him well.
Andy: Well, how was the wedding?
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